Nashville, Tennessee

Nursing Home Advocate in Nashville

An advocate who knows the system from the inside.

Something not sitting right with your parent's care? I visit the facility unannounced, look into it directly, and call you with what I found and what I'd do next. Real answers, not just reassurance.

Recent check-ins, never on a schedule

What changes

Real answers, not just reassurance.

When you raise a concern

A reassuring update

You're told it's being looked into. Days go by, nothing changes, and no one can tell you who is responsible for it. Reassuring, but not the same as resolved.

With Proxy Family

Someone who goes and finds out

I go to the facility unannounced, ask the right people the right questions, and tell you what I actually found, because I spent years on the other side of that table and know exactly how these communities work.

How it works

01 · You tell me

Tell me what's going on

A short call or message about what's concerning you: a request that isn't being followed, a change you've noticed, a conversation that didn't sit right, or just a feeling that something is off.

02 · I go look

An unannounced visit

I go to the facility, unannounced, and look into your concern in person.

03 · I call you

A clear answer

I call you with what I found, whether it's serious, and what I'd recommend doing next, so you're not left guessing or relying on a reassuring non-answer.

Monthly oversight, with regular visits and written reports, is also available →

Where I stand

I work for you. Only you.

No facility relationships

I don't take referral fees

I'm not paid by, affiliated with, or beholden to any facility. My only loyalty is to your family. My fiduciary responsibility is to you.

Christine, founder of Proxy Family

Christine Hyde

I know these communities from the inside out.

Before this, I worked as a Licensed Nursing Home Administrator, managing assisted living and memory care communities. I watched families get the sanitized version. And over and over, I watched that the residents who were visited most were the residents who got helped most.

I started Proxy Family because I got tired of wishing I could just tell families what was actually going on. You don't have to figure this out alone, and neither does your person.

What you get is someone who actually knows the ins and outs of these facilities, squarely in your family's corner.

Licensed Nursing Home Administrator Based in Nashville

What families are saying

"Christine is an amazing advocate for nursing home residents and families. It's clear that she genuinely cares about the well-being, dignity, and quality of care of the residents. Her extensive knowledge of nursing home operations has helped me navigate care for my family members. She has been especially helpful in explaining the challenges that my grandpa experienced as he developed dementia and in guiding me on how to best advocate for his care."

— Kylie M., Yelp Review

"Christine truly has a passion for helping families navigate care for their loved ones and making sure that those in nursing homes are receiving the best possible care. She has experience ranging from bedside care to nursing home management, and she has always been a wonderful resource for me while navigating care for my grandparents. Christine truly changed the way I've viewed this transition, and she's really set my worries straight. I'm beyond grateful to have her in my corner."

— Abigail H., Yelp Review

"My elderly brother-in-law lives in Nashville, his only family lives out of state. He was hospitalized suddenly and was going to be released to a nursing home for rehab. We didn't have a clue which were good ones and which weren't. We were handed a list and asked to make the decision quickly, within a day. All we had to go on were ratings and online reviews. Christine was a life saver. She took the time to look over our list and tell us which were good facilities and which weren't. When he was accepted to our first choice it was such a relief. She gave us peace of mind, I can't thank her enough."

— Hilda S., Nashville

"Christine has given me such peace of mind about my family member's care and I trust her to tell the truth. I would recommend her services to anyone with family in senior living."

— Ryan Vargo, Google Review

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Pricing

Clear, flat fees, so you know what something costs before you ask. Start with one visit, or choose ongoing oversight if that fits better.

A good place to start · $400

Single-Issue Visit

You have a concern. I go to the facility and find out what's actually happening, then call you to walk through what I found and what I'd recommend.

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One-time · $250

Facility Placement Review

Considering a specific nursing home, assisted living, or memory care community, or want a second opinion on where your parent already lives? I'll evaluate the facility directly and give you an honest, expert assessment of its fit and quality.

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Ongoing · $795/month

Monthly Oversight

Unannounced visits six times a month, a written report after each one, and direct phone and text access whenever you need to reach me. One consistent person who knows your parent, watching out and advocating for them.

Ask about ongoing oversight →

Common questions

What does Proxy Family actually do?

Proxy Family is an independent advocate for residents of Nashville-area nursing homes, assisted living communities, and memory care facilities. When something isn't right, I visit the facility unannounced, look into it directly, and call you with what I found and what I'd recommend. For families who want ongoing oversight, I also offer regular monthly visits with written reports.

What kinds of concerns can you help with?

Things like a therapy or care-plan request that isn't being followed, a change in your parent's condition or demeanor, a concern you've raised that no one has answered, or a conversation with staff that didn't sit right. If you're not sure whether it's something I can help with, just ask.

How much does it cost?

A Single-Issue Visit, which includes a facility visit and a phone call, is $400. A Facility Placement Review is $250. Ongoing monthly oversight is $795 per month and includes unannounced visits six times a month, written reports after each visit, and direct phone and text access whenever you need to reach me.

Do I have to sign up for ongoing service?

No. You can start with a single visit. A Single-Issue Visit is a one-time engagement, and ongoing monthly oversight is optional if you later decide you want someone checking in regularly.

Do you work with nursing homes, assisted living, or memory care specifically?

All three. Whether your parent is in a skilled nursing facility, an assisted living community, or a memory care unit, the same approach applies, adjusted to what matters most in that setting.

Do you work with families who live nearby, or only families who live out of state?

Both. Some families live out of state and can't visit often. Others visit regularly and still aren't getting answers. Either way, you're welcome to reach out.

Are visits really unannounced?

Yes, on purpose. Visits happen without advance notice, so what's seen reflects an ordinary day, not one prepared for a visit. Facilities cannot restrict a resident's chosen visitors to scheduled or announced visits.

Does Proxy Family have any relationship with the facilities?

No. Proxy Family is not paid by, affiliated with, or beholden to any facility. The only loyalty is to the family.

How is this different from a geriatric care manager?

A geriatric care manager typically handles broader case management and planning. Proxy Family is a hands-on service focused on going to the facility, looking into concerns directly, and getting you real answers, and often works well alongside a care manager rather than replacing one.

What happens if a problem is found during a visit?

Smaller issues are raised directly with staff during the visit itself. Anything more significant is reported to the family right away, with a clear recommendation on next steps.

Who runs Proxy Family?

Christine Hyde, a Licensed Nursing Home Administrator based in Nashville, Tennessee, who spent years managing assisted living and memory care communities before starting Proxy Family.

How do I get started?

Reach out through the contact form below. A short conversation is enough to talk through the situation and get set up.

More questions? See the full Nashville Caregiver FAQ →

Get in touch

Tell me what you are worried about.

Prefer to talk? Call or text (703) 867-0540.